I know I need to post more photos. I know I need to take more photos. The problem is I only have two hands. And way too much is going on.
So Chase started her new school, which she really likes. Unfortunately, she is being hit (again) by another child. Two days in a row. I called the head of school and had a chat with her about it this afternoon. Chase wants to be friends; the little boy doesn't. It makes me so m/sad that she seems to attract, or rather not avoid, children with communication issues. The head of school assured me she would handle it tomorrow. I told Chase that if someone doesn't want to be her friend it is too bad for them - they would be lucky to be her friend. And I reminded her of all of her good friends, and everyone she knows, and how she should always be kind to people, even if they do not want to be friends.
The good news is she likes her school overall. She is really calm, collected and focused when she returns home, rather than crazy and wild, like she was after her last school. She rides the school bus home, which is a big step for her in her big girl world, and something she is really enjoying. I never thought I would ever do it, but she seems so happy to take the bus with the other kids. She said, "Mom, I want to take the bus to school so that I can sit next to my friends." I told her no. I am driving her to school. I put her on the bus from school because I am now shuttling Mads around as well to various play dates and classes, and having Chase have a scheduled ride home (15 mins) is a huge help.
Chase never ceases to amaze me - she drew a "puzzle" for me tonight (I just gave her a pen and paper and asked her to draw) which took my breath away. She took two words and mixed them up. And then she told me I had to unscramble the words. And she is 4-years-old. What 4-year-old does this?
Madoc is now attending two organized playgroups, which feed into kindergarten next year. They are fabulous and amazing. She is loving them. They are all mom-tot programs and are just wonderful. Both focus on learning through play. I wish Chase had had an opportunity to attend them when she was young.
Madoc's first stop is ALWAYS the baby doll section. She then decides which baby doll she is going to carry (and which accessories she needs) with her for the rest of the day. From there, she usually heads to whatever water station is available. This past week, one school had a big water tray with various plastic water creatures and fish nets and the kids "fished" them out. The other school had bunch of plastic water creatures that you could pull out of a water tub and stick them to a plexiglass wall. She ADORES these water activities. From there, we go to painting. Patterns, brushes, you name it. If she can paint it, she will. And then there's the glue station, where the kids get to brush on glue and stick things to it (she doesn't really get this concept yet - I can tell she is wondering why you would use white paint on white paper, and what is mommy doing with the cut pieces of paper and glitter - and why are they sticking to the paper). And then, it's off to something physical - plastic cars, slides, climbers, you name it. And then it's snack time. And then it's music/song/story time, which she isn't so great at sitting still for, but boy does she love to dance and jump. She is soooo sweet.
And now I am finding myself having to apply for Primary 1 for Chase - and K1 for Mads, for Fall 2011. And they are like college applications. Oh my word. I have a large list of supporting documents I am supposed to submit with each application, and then there are interviews and in some cases, placement tests.
And if that isn't enough - Chase broke out in hives on Wednesday. I took her to the doctor, who told me she could be allergic to anything... even the air! She has had minor break outs in the past, but this one has now been with us for 36 hours, far longer than any before. Maybe I should look into getting her allergy tested?
Thursday, September 02, 2010
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Schools
A word about schools in Hong Kong. I am about to apply to three more schools (we are already wait-listed for two schools).
So here's the run-down.
*School 1 - seems to be the "in" school for our area. Loads of people apply and very few get in. When parents talk about the fact their kids go there, it is almost like talking about an exclusive club. Most of the kids who get in to this are from the feeder school. Almost the entire feeder school class was accepted last year. Catch is the child has to go to the feeder school for two terms before they can make the interview priority list. (we moved here too late to consider going there) The school has an IB programme and was originally designed to provide western families with a school for children who did not speak the local language. Well, I guess too many Westerners decided to move to the area, because there are way too many applications and way too few spaces. Between you and me, the School seems a bit run down, and overcrowded for a school that has so much attitude. I met a woman who has two girls there and they have had to be tutored in Math from early on because they aren't being given enough instruction at school. There is minimal homework. And I've heard tutors don't like tutoring kids from there because they lack focus and are all over the place.
*School 2 - seems to be "runner up" school. Takes the overflow from the first school but concerns from parents is that it is too Chinese and Western kids are ostracized. Not cool. Facilities are new and not run-down (as school number 1). Called to make an appointment in June to see the school, they told me to get back in touch in September because they don't offer tours during the Summer. Called last week (thinking I am ahead of the game) and they told me all tours are booked until October. And I have to apply in September. Not cool, not cool. So I have to apply without seeing the school? NOT COOL.
* School 3 - bilingual school. Actually top of my list these days. Combines Chinese and Western curriculum. Teaches in both Mandarin and English. Actually talks about kids getting into top universities around the world (haven't seen much about this anywhere else). Seems to have very strong academic, sport, art, language and music program. Small class size. 10:1 student/teacher ratio (compare to school 1 and 2 with 25 kids per class). Only problem - it's about 30 min away with no traffic and it starts at quite an early age = not much room each year for new students. I'm guessing there is a lot of homework from very early on.
* School 4 - Japanese school. Good facilities, education, class size is small. No telling if she will get in.
* School 5 - Applied. Last I checked, Mads (who should have the best chance of getting in) was between 170-180 on the wait list for a school that hasn't even been built yet!
*School 6 - Another bilingual school. Tempted to apply but I just don't know if we even stand a chance of getting in. And seriously, how many schools must one apply for?
So here's the run-down.
*School 1 - seems to be the "in" school for our area. Loads of people apply and very few get in. When parents talk about the fact their kids go there, it is almost like talking about an exclusive club. Most of the kids who get in to this are from the feeder school. Almost the entire feeder school class was accepted last year. Catch is the child has to go to the feeder school for two terms before they can make the interview priority list. (we moved here too late to consider going there) The school has an IB programme and was originally designed to provide western families with a school for children who did not speak the local language. Well, I guess too many Westerners decided to move to the area, because there are way too many applications and way too few spaces. Between you and me, the School seems a bit run down, and overcrowded for a school that has so much attitude. I met a woman who has two girls there and they have had to be tutored in Math from early on because they aren't being given enough instruction at school. There is minimal homework. And I've heard tutors don't like tutoring kids from there because they lack focus and are all over the place.
*School 2 - seems to be "runner up" school. Takes the overflow from the first school but concerns from parents is that it is too Chinese and Western kids are ostracized. Not cool. Facilities are new and not run-down (as school number 1). Called to make an appointment in June to see the school, they told me to get back in touch in September because they don't offer tours during the Summer. Called last week (thinking I am ahead of the game) and they told me all tours are booked until October. And I have to apply in September. Not cool, not cool. So I have to apply without seeing the school? NOT COOL.
* School 3 - bilingual school. Actually top of my list these days. Combines Chinese and Western curriculum. Teaches in both Mandarin and English. Actually talks about kids getting into top universities around the world (haven't seen much about this anywhere else). Seems to have very strong academic, sport, art, language and music program. Small class size. 10:1 student/teacher ratio (compare to school 1 and 2 with 25 kids per class). Only problem - it's about 30 min away with no traffic and it starts at quite an early age = not much room each year for new students. I'm guessing there is a lot of homework from very early on.
* School 4 - Japanese school. Good facilities, education, class size is small. No telling if she will get in.
* School 5 - Applied. Last I checked, Mads (who should have the best chance of getting in) was between 170-180 on the wait list for a school that hasn't even been built yet!
*School 6 - Another bilingual school. Tempted to apply but I just don't know if we even stand a chance of getting in. And seriously, how many schools must one apply for?
Monday, August 23, 2010
My dearest Mads
Oh Madsy, Madsy, dearest Madsy,
I wanted to write you a little note because I love you so and feel as though I have been a rubbish mom when it comes to making entries about your development -- that's only because I spend every waking moment I can playing with you and your big sister.
So let me take a moment and tell you a little about you. You are brilliant. Sparkling. Shining like a star. Your laugh fills my heart with joy. You are so happy most of the time - except when you get a new tooth, and then you are miserable. It probably doesn't help I took your pacifier away and then pretended like I didn't know what you were looking for... but Mads, you are talking now! You can say mom, dad, chase. You also like saying shoes and juice a lot. You are very good at saying thank you. Not so good at saying please or waiting for your turn. You take things from Chase a lot, but to be fair, she has taken a lot from you, too - I don't blame you. We are working so hard at asking each other for things instead of taking them from each other. You need a little help with this.
You love our cat. And our cat loves you. You are the only one she allows to hold her. And you do, you hold her so close I'm not sure she can breath, so I only let you "hold" her for a second.
You love baby dolls. You love to wash them. Dress them. Play doctor with them. And puzzles. Oh you are getting so good at puzzles. At 20 months you can put single piece puzzles back together, and put train tracks together, and put large floor puzzles together (with help). You also love your little pink kitchen. You make your dollies food, before you examine them with the doctor kit.
Your smile is precious. Your skin is so soft. I just want to cuddle and snuzzle you all day long. Your eyes are a brilliant blue and your hair is pure white gold. The Chinese love you. Blond hair, blue eyes. They can't get enough.
You don't like diapers. You don't like hats or sunglasses (which worries me because the sun is so harsh here). You are fiercely independent and have figured out how to unlock our baby gates. You love our helper Jojo, and she, I can tell, loves you right back. You have a special relationship with all moms. You will cuddle every mom who comes over, just walk right over and give them a hug.
You are very physical, you love painting with your hands and getting really messy. You love play dough and water play. You are very good with the pitcher and cup. Only messing up when I hover too close.
Mads you amaze me every day, in every way. I love you sooooo much.
You are so lucky to have a big sister like Chase, and she is so lucky to have a little sister like you. I hope you continue to grow closer and closer and you will always, always be there for each other.
I wanted to write you a little note because I love you so and feel as though I have been a rubbish mom when it comes to making entries about your development -- that's only because I spend every waking moment I can playing with you and your big sister.
So let me take a moment and tell you a little about you. You are brilliant. Sparkling. Shining like a star. Your laugh fills my heart with joy. You are so happy most of the time - except when you get a new tooth, and then you are miserable. It probably doesn't help I took your pacifier away and then pretended like I didn't know what you were looking for... but Mads, you are talking now! You can say mom, dad, chase. You also like saying shoes and juice a lot. You are very good at saying thank you. Not so good at saying please or waiting for your turn. You take things from Chase a lot, but to be fair, she has taken a lot from you, too - I don't blame you. We are working so hard at asking each other for things instead of taking them from each other. You need a little help with this.
You love our cat. And our cat loves you. You are the only one she allows to hold her. And you do, you hold her so close I'm not sure she can breath, so I only let you "hold" her for a second.
You love baby dolls. You love to wash them. Dress them. Play doctor with them. And puzzles. Oh you are getting so good at puzzles. At 20 months you can put single piece puzzles back together, and put train tracks together, and put large floor puzzles together (with help). You also love your little pink kitchen. You make your dollies food, before you examine them with the doctor kit.
Your smile is precious. Your skin is so soft. I just want to cuddle and snuzzle you all day long. Your eyes are a brilliant blue and your hair is pure white gold. The Chinese love you. Blond hair, blue eyes. They can't get enough.
You don't like diapers. You don't like hats or sunglasses (which worries me because the sun is so harsh here). You are fiercely independent and have figured out how to unlock our baby gates. You love our helper Jojo, and she, I can tell, loves you right back. You have a special relationship with all moms. You will cuddle every mom who comes over, just walk right over and give them a hug.
You are very physical, you love painting with your hands and getting really messy. You love play dough and water play. You are very good with the pitcher and cup. Only messing up when I hover too close.
Mads you amaze me every day, in every way. I love you sooooo much.
You are so lucky to have a big sister like Chase, and she is so lucky to have a little sister like you. I hope you continue to grow closer and closer and you will always, always be there for each other.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Connection
So we went to a birthday party for one of Chase's friends. I met a woman. She made an amazing connection with Chase. Really amazing. It is hard to articulate the details, but I'll give it a shot.
Early on, Chase loved puzzles. Chase has been fascinated by numbers and patterns lately. She turns everything into a pattern. Weather, music, food, hair-dos, eating -- everything is a pattern. She also counts. A lot. All kinds of things. She can do simple math in her head. At just 4 1/2, she can tell you that if there were 9 cupcakes and 3 people, that each person would get three cupcakes. I'm not sure how much is talent and how much is gift and how much is normal, but I do know she has a special relationship with patterns, numbers and shapes.
So I have been asking people if they know people who are good with numbers and patterns. And I finally found a lady. She was at the party. She sat right down and started talking to Chase. About shapes. So here is a snippet from their conversation... Lady: What shape do you like most (Chase: triangles), why? (they have three), do you count points or sides (points), how many points does a door have (four), how many points do two doors have (eight), three doors? (eleven. wait, I have to recount), and how does it feel when you get it wrong (sad), and if you get it right? (happy) so what do you do (recount until it's right), do numbers make you feel safe(yes). And how do you count cats? (four) Yes there are four letters - woman told me she would eventually count by strokes made to write the letters. And the woman told me she would eventually start counting by threes or by fours, or by both. That it wasn't uncommon for a child to relate to a shape, but it was uncommon for a child to be able to express it and be connected with it the way Chase was... and she was really impressed when she asked Chase the cupcake question and Chase answered without even taking a moment to count. She said Chase will need things to be "just so," corners in place, etc, because otherwise her brain will not be able to stop. She said from what she saw Chase will need to figure out a way to find a conclusion to her pattern search (this woman, it turns out, is a counter - she counts everything, sides of windows, tires on cars, everything).
I am so happy to have met this woman. I am so grateful for finding someone who not only understands Chase in this way, but I just have a very good feeling that this woman will be a very important woman in Chase's life. And I don't even know her. But Chase really, really connected with her.
Early on, Chase loved puzzles. Chase has been fascinated by numbers and patterns lately. She turns everything into a pattern. Weather, music, food, hair-dos, eating -- everything is a pattern. She also counts. A lot. All kinds of things. She can do simple math in her head. At just 4 1/2, she can tell you that if there were 9 cupcakes and 3 people, that each person would get three cupcakes. I'm not sure how much is talent and how much is gift and how much is normal, but I do know she has a special relationship with patterns, numbers and shapes.
So I have been asking people if they know people who are good with numbers and patterns. And I finally found a lady. She was at the party. She sat right down and started talking to Chase. About shapes. So here is a snippet from their conversation... Lady: What shape do you like most (Chase: triangles), why? (they have three), do you count points or sides (points), how many points does a door have (four), how many points do two doors have (eight), three doors? (eleven. wait, I have to recount), and how does it feel when you get it wrong (sad), and if you get it right? (happy) so what do you do (recount until it's right), do numbers make you feel safe(yes). And how do you count cats? (four) Yes there are four letters - woman told me she would eventually count by strokes made to write the letters. And the woman told me she would eventually start counting by threes or by fours, or by both. That it wasn't uncommon for a child to relate to a shape, but it was uncommon for a child to be able to express it and be connected with it the way Chase was... and she was really impressed when she asked Chase the cupcake question and Chase answered without even taking a moment to count. She said Chase will need things to be "just so," corners in place, etc, because otherwise her brain will not be able to stop. She said from what she saw Chase will need to figure out a way to find a conclusion to her pattern search (this woman, it turns out, is a counter - she counts everything, sides of windows, tires on cars, everything).
I am so happy to have met this woman. I am so grateful for finding someone who not only understands Chase in this way, but I just have a very good feeling that this woman will be a very important woman in Chase's life. And I don't even know her. But Chase really, really connected with her.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Space Station
With the weather being so stormy, and so many mosquitoes outside, we have been spending a lot of time indoors. As a result, we are in the midst of building a space station (chicken wire is formed, but we're having a hard time getting it to stand up). As there was a black rainstorm warning issued (this means stay inside), we took the opportunity to make rocket ships.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Another Day
It is still hot here. And will be for several more months.
So hot you sweat just looking outside.
I've been keeping our AC at 30c because our last electricity bill was astronomical.
So what have we been up to?
1) Barbies. Lots of barbies. I must admit, my least favorite thing to play. I look forward to when Chase and Mads can play together.
2) We started going on nature walks in the morning.
Yesterday Chase collected large, tropical leaves and then took them home and drew them.
Today I was going to have her use clay to model in the shape of leaves.
3) We also studied how orange juice gets onto the breakfast table.
4) And Chase is currently working to earn a large, inflatable bouncy ball that has a handle (the child sits on the ball and bounces).
Chase and Mads also designed their own place-mats. They set and clear their table every day. They serve themselves - and each other - food and beverage. It is so darn cute. I just love to watch them having little conversations with each other over breakfast.
Chase continues to get mosquito bites. Mads continues to NOT get bitten.
Chase is learning the difference between being a good role model and a bad role model. Despite her best efforts, she usually ends up teaching and encouraging Mads to misbehave. Mostly because Madoc will do anything Chase wants her to. Chase is still having a hard time using her words with Madoc, and usually does a weird scream thing if Mads takes something from her. Which happens more times in a day than I can count.
Chase is an amazing learner. She absorbs everything. All of her lessons. From anyone who will take two minutes with her. Whatever her friends do. Whatever happens around her. She just soaks it up. And she's old enough that she can act on it, whatever it is. It's amazing to watch.
Mads is doing the same thing, but I would dub her a silent observer. Watching, learning, taking notes. In just the last few months we have seen her develop very strong opinions about what she likes and doesn't like. And while she isn't talking much (her big sister and pacifier are culprits I'm sure), she understands so much. Hubs and I agree that the day she starts talking, she probably won't ever stop.
Two lovely girls. How did I get so lucky?
So hot you sweat just looking outside.
I've been keeping our AC at 30c because our last electricity bill was astronomical.
So what have we been up to?
1) Barbies. Lots of barbies. I must admit, my least favorite thing to play. I look forward to when Chase and Mads can play together.
2) We started going on nature walks in the morning.
Yesterday Chase collected large, tropical leaves and then took them home and drew them.
Today I was going to have her use clay to model in the shape of leaves.
3) We also studied how orange juice gets onto the breakfast table.
4) And Chase is currently working to earn a large, inflatable bouncy ball that has a handle (the child sits on the ball and bounces).
Chase and Mads also designed their own place-mats. They set and clear their table every day. They serve themselves - and each other - food and beverage. It is so darn cute. I just love to watch them having little conversations with each other over breakfast.
Chase continues to get mosquito bites. Mads continues to NOT get bitten.
Chase is learning the difference between being a good role model and a bad role model. Despite her best efforts, she usually ends up teaching and encouraging Mads to misbehave. Mostly because Madoc will do anything Chase wants her to. Chase is still having a hard time using her words with Madoc, and usually does a weird scream thing if Mads takes something from her. Which happens more times in a day than I can count.
Chase is an amazing learner. She absorbs everything. All of her lessons. From anyone who will take two minutes with her. Whatever her friends do. Whatever happens around her. She just soaks it up. And she's old enough that she can act on it, whatever it is. It's amazing to watch.
Mads is doing the same thing, but I would dub her a silent observer. Watching, learning, taking notes. In just the last few months we have seen her develop very strong opinions about what she likes and doesn't like. And while she isn't talking much (her big sister and pacifier are culprits I'm sure), she understands so much. Hubs and I agree that the day she starts talking, she probably won't ever stop.
Two lovely girls. How did I get so lucky?
Soccer
I was planning on posting a picture of Mads at her soccer class today, but she is so shy at practice, that she buried herself in my arm/lap and hardly participated (except when I lifted her up, or physically moved her leg to kick the ball). And then of course she cried. The thing is, we practiced all of the moves ALL week long, so I know she knows how to do them. And she isn't shy anywhere else. And the other two tots (the same age) are running circles around her, poor dear!
C'mon Madsy, you can do it! I know you can!
C'mon Madsy, you can do it! I know you can!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Jumping!
Madoc jumped right off the ground today. Both feet off the ground! How exciting!! She's been trying to get her feet off the ground ever since she saw Chase skipping around the dining room, and by goodness, she's done it.
Mads, however, did not enjoy her first day of soccer class. She came home with two skinned knees. And was just not interested in doing any of the soccer drills.
Chase is loving piano. She is looking forward to soccer and tennis again (starts August) and an art camp I recently enrolled her in...
And it is hot. Blistering hot here. The minute I step outside I just start sweating. And it isn't even mid-July yet. So many of our friends are "Summering" elsewhere, and I really understand why.
Mads, however, did not enjoy her first day of soccer class. She came home with two skinned knees. And was just not interested in doing any of the soccer drills.
Chase is loving piano. She is looking forward to soccer and tennis again (starts August) and an art camp I recently enrolled her in...
And it is hot. Blistering hot here. The minute I step outside I just start sweating. And it isn't even mid-July yet. So many of our friends are "Summering" elsewhere, and I really understand why.
Saturday, July 03, 2010
Mads
I love this shot of Mads...
And this shot...
And this shows her incredible sense of humor, at only 1 1/2 years old.
Proud Mama,
L
And this shot...
And this shows her incredible sense of humor, at only 1 1/2 years old.
Proud Mama,
L
Temple Visit
We decided to visit a local temple while Nana Cris was in town...
Mads made a friend...
Then Chase and Nana visited the local deity (Chase asked for a Prince and candy)...
Then Chase and Nana shook the fortune sticks...
And then Chase and Nana went to the fortune teller...
Mads made a friend...
Then Chase and Nana visited the local deity (Chase asked for a Prince and candy)...
Then Chase and Nana shook the fortune sticks...
And then Chase and Nana went to the fortune teller...
Friday, July 02, 2010
Thursday, July 01, 2010
Updates
Chase skipped for the first time in dance class last week. She also swam, without a float, for the first time yesterday. Really amazing!!! She has taught herself how to swim (mostly because she fights Brian and I when we try to teach her anything), because she has so many friends who already know how - and now that we have access to a pool, there is really no reason she should not be out there every day. Well, one reason is the bugs, but we went this morning and it seemed virtually bug free.
I gave Madoc her first hair cut yesterday. She had grown a nice little mullet. Business in the front, party in the back.
We recently went to Shenzen, China, in an effort to buy some inexpensive furniture for our house. The trip was a bust. Shenzen, while much improved from a decade ago (the sky was actually a brilliant blue), is still the Tijuana of China. Filled with loads of Gucci this and Gucci that. The thing that made the trip fabulous, was our stay at the Intercontinental. It had a massive pool, complete with a white sand beach and giant ship for the kids to explore. Really over the top. A fabulous Brazilian dinner. Brazilian music, to which the girls danced until 9 pm, before falling fast asleep.
Other then that, I have finally figured out schools (well, sort of). Chase is back to morning programs next week, which should be better for us, before she switches back to afternoons in September. Things just seem to be falling into place (finally). I have also had a realization that I need to get over my obsessive nature with my children (not easy to do) and let Madoc attend some classes with Jojo, otherwise she will never get to do anything. With me driving here, there and everywhere for Chase, Mads has become the "come along" child, and while she gets to play and watch her sister do activities, she is quickly becoming old enough to do classes. For example, I have scheduled piano and Mandarin lessons for Chase, beginning next week. Mads starts soccer the following week (the only time she can do it conflicts with Chase's school, so I will drop Mads and Jojo at soccer, zip over to drop off Chase and then zip back to catch the end of soccer). She is too young for Mandarin lessons here. Still trying to find golf and tennis for Chase. Mandarin pottery, which sounded great, really wasn't.
And finally, I have decided to switch on my exercise program - actually exercise - for the first time in four years. Did yoga on day one. Went for a run on day two. Day three and four, I counted carrying Madoc and her bag through China non-stop as part of the program. Should run today.
Also worth mentioning that Chase is all about princesses and barbies right now. Madoc is all about climbing up things and drawing on things she shouldn't. Good times!
I gave Madoc her first hair cut yesterday. She had grown a nice little mullet. Business in the front, party in the back.
We recently went to Shenzen, China, in an effort to buy some inexpensive furniture for our house. The trip was a bust. Shenzen, while much improved from a decade ago (the sky was actually a brilliant blue), is still the Tijuana of China. Filled with loads of Gucci this and Gucci that. The thing that made the trip fabulous, was our stay at the Intercontinental. It had a massive pool, complete with a white sand beach and giant ship for the kids to explore. Really over the top. A fabulous Brazilian dinner. Brazilian music, to which the girls danced until 9 pm, before falling fast asleep.
Other then that, I have finally figured out schools (well, sort of). Chase is back to morning programs next week, which should be better for us, before she switches back to afternoons in September. Things just seem to be falling into place (finally). I have also had a realization that I need to get over my obsessive nature with my children (not easy to do) and let Madoc attend some classes with Jojo, otherwise she will never get to do anything. With me driving here, there and everywhere for Chase, Mads has become the "come along" child, and while she gets to play and watch her sister do activities, she is quickly becoming old enough to do classes. For example, I have scheduled piano and Mandarin lessons for Chase, beginning next week. Mads starts soccer the following week (the only time she can do it conflicts with Chase's school, so I will drop Mads and Jojo at soccer, zip over to drop off Chase and then zip back to catch the end of soccer). She is too young for Mandarin lessons here. Still trying to find golf and tennis for Chase. Mandarin pottery, which sounded great, really wasn't.
And finally, I have decided to switch on my exercise program - actually exercise - for the first time in four years. Did yoga on day one. Went for a run on day two. Day three and four, I counted carrying Madoc and her bag through China non-stop as part of the program. Should run today.
Also worth mentioning that Chase is all about princesses and barbies right now. Madoc is all about climbing up things and drawing on things she shouldn't. Good times!
Saturday, June 12, 2010
I AM BAD
I have become so bad at writing.
At keeping in touch.
At doing just about everything.
This includes everything related to friends and family.
It's like I'm having a melt down.
But still smiling.
It's all I can do to figure out what we are going to eat each day.
And it should be easier.
It really should.
I have "help" now, so I can actually shower alone, for the first time in four years. The first morning my helper started, she said, "do you want me to help the girls eat their breakfast so you can get ready?" I looked at her like she was from another planet. It never occurred to me that showering without at least one child screaming (Mads usually) and at least one child in the shower with me, would ever be possible. Not for many more years to come.
I now have ironed clothes in my closet, for the first time ever. I don't have to do the laundry anymore. I don't even have to cook meals. Or clean.
So what's my problem? I'm not sure, but I think it has to do with having three people depending on me to (a) take care of them and (b) make sure they have everything they need the moment they want it. And it's great I can now delegate, but my brain is foggy from four years of doing everything myself and getting no sleep. Hubs and I have an ongoing conversation about how long it should take for my body to get back to "normal" (which only means how long it will take before I'm not so exhausted). He seems to think it only takes a month. I think it's going to take about three more years.
And it seems that just when I stop worrying about something, another little something pops up that is all consuming.
Like the fact Chase has a rash. She has had a rash now for four days. It is bright red, splotchy and on her arms and legs. We've seen a doctor. He thinks it might be all the mosquito repellent I've been putting on Chase - every day. I've done rash research online and it says rashes can last up to four weeks. Egads. So we went to the fabric market today to buy cloth with which we can cover Chase up from head to toe. We've also sprayed for mosquitoes, which has made a huge difference.
Or maybe it's because we just moved and adjusting to this new life has been more stressful than I thought it would be - two kids is much harder than one.
Or maybe it's because Chase isn't happy at school. She complains she feels sick every morning before it's time to go. Or maybe it's because the school options here are crazy, there are two year wait lists for primary schools, ugh....
Anyway, I have to say that most of my friends have told me one becomes more relaxed with the second child. I don't believe this has happened to me. I feel like my worries and concerns have only increased - two kids to be responsible for! And I am still just as torn about spending any time away from Madoc. I feel like Chase has certainly come into her own (or at least is doing the best she can with her 4-year-old-ness), but she still needs so much from me (time, love, energy) all of which I am happy to give, but boy do I feel torn up inside about Mads (who is so sweet at this age!!!). Time away from Mads is time with Chase and vice versa. They play well together. Sleep together and fight together.
At keeping in touch.
At doing just about everything.
This includes everything related to friends and family.
It's like I'm having a melt down.
But still smiling.
It's all I can do to figure out what we are going to eat each day.
And it should be easier.
It really should.
I have "help" now, so I can actually shower alone, for the first time in four years. The first morning my helper started, she said, "do you want me to help the girls eat their breakfast so you can get ready?" I looked at her like she was from another planet. It never occurred to me that showering without at least one child screaming (Mads usually) and at least one child in the shower with me, would ever be possible. Not for many more years to come.
I now have ironed clothes in my closet, for the first time ever. I don't have to do the laundry anymore. I don't even have to cook meals. Or clean.
So what's my problem? I'm not sure, but I think it has to do with having three people depending on me to (a) take care of them and (b) make sure they have everything they need the moment they want it. And it's great I can now delegate, but my brain is foggy from four years of doing everything myself and getting no sleep. Hubs and I have an ongoing conversation about how long it should take for my body to get back to "normal" (which only means how long it will take before I'm not so exhausted). He seems to think it only takes a month. I think it's going to take about three more years.
And it seems that just when I stop worrying about something, another little something pops up that is all consuming.
Like the fact Chase has a rash. She has had a rash now for four days. It is bright red, splotchy and on her arms and legs. We've seen a doctor. He thinks it might be all the mosquito repellent I've been putting on Chase - every day. I've done rash research online and it says rashes can last up to four weeks. Egads. So we went to the fabric market today to buy cloth with which we can cover Chase up from head to toe. We've also sprayed for mosquitoes, which has made a huge difference.
Or maybe it's because we just moved and adjusting to this new life has been more stressful than I thought it would be - two kids is much harder than one.
Or maybe it's because Chase isn't happy at school. She complains she feels sick every morning before it's time to go. Or maybe it's because the school options here are crazy, there are two year wait lists for primary schools, ugh....
Anyway, I have to say that most of my friends have told me one becomes more relaxed with the second child. I don't believe this has happened to me. I feel like my worries and concerns have only increased - two kids to be responsible for! And I am still just as torn about spending any time away from Madoc. I feel like Chase has certainly come into her own (or at least is doing the best she can with her 4-year-old-ness), but she still needs so much from me (time, love, energy) all of which I am happy to give, but boy do I feel torn up inside about Mads (who is so sweet at this age!!!). Time away from Mads is time with Chase and vice versa. They play well together. Sleep together and fight together.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Space Museum
Today we interviewed a helper - more like she interviewed us. She ended up deciding to work for our family! Hurray! She will start working for us on Friday.
After we spoke with her, we headed to the Museum of Science, which didn't last long (and honestly I would not recommend even though they do have a very cool anti-gravity chamber). Mads was really tired and everyone was getting hungry.
After we spoke with her, we headed to the Museum of Science, which didn't last long (and honestly I would not recommend even though they do have a very cool anti-gravity chamber). Mads was really tired and everyone was getting hungry.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Our New House
Today we went out to our new house and took measurements - still have to buy beds (for all) as well as a fridge and washer/dryer before we move in.
Good news: 1) We got the cars, 2) we sold our car in Denver, 3) we found a helper.
Bad news: We had to reduce the price on our house in Denver AGAIN. We are hoping to get under contract by the end of the month, before the tax credit deadline. People are so darn picky though - they really like living in the basement in Denver, and ours isn't really livable, or we don't have a place for the parents, or the third bedroom upstairs is too small, or they don't "get" the home office, or it isn't modern enough (c'mon people, the house was built in 1913, if you want modern, why are you looking at an old house?) - very frustrating!
Good news: 1) We got the cars, 2) we sold our car in Denver, 3) we found a helper.
Bad news: We had to reduce the price on our house in Denver AGAIN. We are hoping to get under contract by the end of the month, before the tax credit deadline. People are so darn picky though - they really like living in the basement in Denver, and ours isn't really livable, or we don't have a place for the parents, or the third bedroom upstairs is too small, or they don't "get" the home office, or it isn't modern enough (c'mon people, the house was built in 1913, if you want modern, why are you looking at an old house?) - very frustrating!
Everyday Lessons
Today Chase learned not to stand under a building in Hong Kong with your mouth open trying to catch the "rain."
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Hong Kong Botanic Gardens & Zoo
Today we went to the Hong Kong Botanic Gardens. It was really hot and humid. The gardens, like most of the outdoor attractions in Hong Kong, are located on a steep hill, so if you aren't sweating after you step out of the taxi, you will be sweating 5 minutes later. Loads of stairs and uphill paths. I guess one should be able to steer around this problem if one was clever enough to know the name of the entrance at the top of the hill. Only problem is, the main entrance is at the bottom of the hill. So we climbed up and up, Mads walked most of the way and fell asleep in the cab on the way home.
The Botanic Gardens have quite a bit of green and a good collection of animals, but they are all in cages with thick, black metal bars, which makes it sort of hard to actual animals.
Both girls really enjoyed themselves. Chase drank half a bottle of water. And by the end we were all on the look-out for the nearest taxi (with AC). And funny enough, we heard Uncle Courtney's song in the car on the way home, and Chase was overjoyed, "it's Uncle Courtney, Uncle Courtney!"
And in other news, it appears Icky has returned. He is with us most days. He was with us on the subway, in the Gardens and in the taxi home.
At the gardens...
The entrance...
One of the many paths up... up... up...
Some flora and fauna...
Lots of stairs... Mads walked up every one of them (as did Chase).
Birds...
Birds...
The skyline...
They had a lot of Lemurs. At least 5 kinds.
Mads looking at monkeys...
No spitting (just in case you were tempted)...
Lovely flowers...
The Botanic Gardens have quite a bit of green and a good collection of animals, but they are all in cages with thick, black metal bars, which makes it sort of hard to actual animals.
Both girls really enjoyed themselves. Chase drank half a bottle of water. And by the end we were all on the look-out for the nearest taxi (with AC). And funny enough, we heard Uncle Courtney's song in the car on the way home, and Chase was overjoyed, "it's Uncle Courtney, Uncle Courtney!"
And in other news, it appears Icky has returned. He is with us most days. He was with us on the subway, in the Gardens and in the taxi home.
At the gardens...
The entrance...
One of the many paths up... up... up...
Some flora and fauna...
Lots of stairs... Mads walked up every one of them (as did Chase).
Birds...
Birds...
The skyline...
They had a lot of Lemurs. At least 5 kinds.
Mads looking at monkeys...
No spitting (just in case you were tempted)...
Lovely flowers...
Chase's Classes
So the good news is that the Mandarin tutor told me Chase's Mandarin accent is better than most local Hong Kong children. Bad news - she's lost most of it. Also, she has been in an art class, which, from what I've seen is more a "paint this," kind of class. I came in early and the art teacher was actually painting part of her project for her (hmmmm). Good thing this art class is only a week long, and it gives me an idea of what not to look for -- but at least it gives Chase an opportunity to work on a project and get a little dirty while we dwell in this tiny apartment. You only have to sneeze and it's mess-town everywhere!
Monday, April 19, 2010
Schools
Today we went to look at local preschools.
And yes, the MTR is very clean (you are not allowed to eat or drink in paid areas).
Chase has memorized this message and repeats it at every opportunity.
She is probably rather fixated on a place where they prohibit snacks.
We then caught a mini bus, which is like a shared taxi. Less expensive, but just as crazy. The driver has to show you the speed at which he travels (upper left corner).
Here is Chase, taking it all in...
When we arrived, we decided to walk along the waterfront. There are several boats you can pay to take out. Chase was very interested in the "show" advertised below.
Lots of cute little restaurants...
And we took a look at what the local restaurants had on offer...
These fish gave the girls some strange looks...
This was where one school was located. High up and a bit of a walk through the jungle. Quite cool, except there were SO MANY mosquitoes.
And here is Chase, waiting for the mini bus - we were in the middle of nowhere. She refused to use the bathroom at Leapfrog (she really didn't like the school).
And then it was off to a play date - needless to say, by the end of the day, both girls could hardly keep their eyes open. To that end, Chase has really impressed me by her ability to go, and go, and go. And she's not in a car. She's walking. Almost the entire day. It's amazing.
Met some ladies who live in our new town. They seem pretty cool.
And yes, the MTR is very clean (you are not allowed to eat or drink in paid areas).
Chase has memorized this message and repeats it at every opportunity.
She is probably rather fixated on a place where they prohibit snacks.
We then caught a mini bus, which is like a shared taxi. Less expensive, but just as crazy. The driver has to show you the speed at which he travels (upper left corner).
Here is Chase, taking it all in...
When we arrived, we decided to walk along the waterfront. There are several boats you can pay to take out. Chase was very interested in the "show" advertised below.
Lots of cute little restaurants...
And we took a look at what the local restaurants had on offer...
These fish gave the girls some strange looks...
This was where one school was located. High up and a bit of a walk through the jungle. Quite cool, except there were SO MANY mosquitoes.
And here is Chase, waiting for the mini bus - we were in the middle of nowhere. She refused to use the bathroom at Leapfrog (she really didn't like the school).
And then it was off to a play date - needless to say, by the end of the day, both girls could hardly keep their eyes open. To that end, Chase has really impressed me by her ability to go, and go, and go. And she's not in a car. She's walking. Almost the entire day. It's amazing.
Met some ladies who live in our new town. They seem pretty cool.
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